Social media has proven the power of hive thinking. When a group of more than 5 people get together dynamics change, behavior changes, thought processes are altered, FEELING takes over but in a diluted & deeply influencing way. Basically, when human beings get into larger groups (quite literally anything over 5 people) the way they think and act are altered.

Ever been out in a group and done things you're not super proud of? Made decisions that really aren't you?

What about even shortly after being a large group, even though you've left and are alone or with just a couple people, have you done things that make you cringe at least a little after the fact?

If you want to go all science-y on this: the subatomic information that is always present and interacting with you as well as everything and everyone around you is dramatic different in larger groups. This information, the energetic frequency that is bombarding, impacting and influencing us at all times, becomes stronger than you average persons ability to feel their own authentic self. IE you stop knowing what's "you" and what isn't and are caught up in whatever the masses are feeling, thinking & doing.

Yes, this even occurs virtually. Social media, fake news, viral videos, trending topics prove it.

How do we combat it? How do we separate from the hive and stay in our own lane online and in real life?

1 - You become aware of it. Now you know and you can't unknow it. Pay attention to your thoughts, feelings and decisions when you're in a larger group versus in smaller groups or by yourself. You'll notice a difference.

When you're online scrolling, consuming content, pay attention to what you get "passionate" about or reactive to. Are you caught up in the hive or is it really your feelings & thoughts?

2 - Question everything. The most powerful question is to simply ask yourseld, "Why?" Beyond that you ask things like:

"What am I feeling?"

"What do I need?"

"What do I want?"

"Is this me or everyone else around me?"

Questioning or commenting just for the sake of arguing and being difficult is just.... annoying. It's proof that someone isn't actually thinking for themselves. They're simply saying things they think they need to say in order to appease their own insecurities and fears. They're caught up in the reactive, inflated hive and want to fit in, feel like they belong, & be seen & heard.

But questioning with the intention of understanding and self discovery... with the intention of deeper connection and better communication... with the intention of finding your truth.... THAT is powerful, authentic, and life changing.

You don't want to be like everyone else?

You want to be truly independent and self aware? Empowered and authentic?

And if I'm being really honest, do you want less stress, overwhelm & anger in your life?

Know yourself. Understand yourself.

Who are you? Why do you do what you do? What do YOU believe, think and feel about xyz?

Can you allow yourself to not be knee-jerk reactive to everything and everyone around you?

Consider everything questionable. Ask about it. Get under the surface. In 90% of experiences and situations if you ask even just 2 pointed questions you'll get through the smoke & mirrors and everything disintegrates around it. You'll see the "man behind the curtain." and your own heightened reactions, thoughts, & feelings dissipate.

Thoughts? Comments? Experiences? Questions? Email Kelly@Rebelrose.life